Friday, May 26, 2017


Fame is an addiction and like any other addiction when that need is not met and withdrawal happens people become desperate losing sight of moral and ethical principles. Don't believe the hype

Friday, April 21, 2017

There are freaks all around us where are the men to protect our woman and children

Pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children. Something must be done about this especially when this happens in the body of Christ. Note the definition is a psychiatric disorder and we know it so why would the church fluff this. After taking aim at the Catholic church pastors and Bishops are finding that this is right up under them in Non denominational churches as well. We must advocate for tougher laws a mandatory 25 years to life with any act with a minor. A civil society will protect its women and children. Why did Bill O'reilly feel free to harass women in the work environment? because it is excepted behavior, sexual perversion and pedophilia run in the same circle. A single man in the right context talking to a woman at work is one thing, however after constant rejection we must look at his psychological profile, something is off. Why did we elect a president that said just grab them by the private? We must reassess our moral principles.

Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Listening in ministry appears to be passive, some pastors do not perceive the act of listening as "doing" for another person. Sometimes this is a major problem for pastors because they need to understand that this is a great ministry. Some think they must be heard all the time and feel they don't have to listen. 

Monday, March 27, 2017

When the people we love or with whom we have a deep connection stop caring, stop paying attention, stop investing and fighting for the relationship, trust begins to slip away and hurt starts seeping in. Disengagement triggers shame and our greatest fears, the fears of being abandoned, unworthy, and unlovable. What can make this covert betrayal so much more dangerous than something like a lie or an affair is that we can’t point to the source of our pain - there’s no event, no obvious evidence of brokenness. It can feel crazy-making.

Thursday, March 23, 2017

My brothers today we face a new challenge, how to gracefully transition from a gender-polarized society, to one that has women and men, girls and boys sharing and exchanging roles in unprecedented ways. In particular, many guys struggle to define their masculinity and themselves as men in a culture that increasingly stigmatizes things like sexuality, aggressiveness, and competitiveness